Tuesday, January 27, 2009

We're MATCHED!!!

It's OFFICIAL!!
Here's the story...and I hope I dont forget anything...my mind is racing and my hands are shaking!!!!! We are BEYOND excited!!

Ok, so Eric called me on my cell phone at work this morning. He NEVER calls me at work..let alone twice in a row, back to back. So after changing another diaper and calming a fussy baby, I called him back hoping nothing was wrong. He said that D, our agency rep, had a potential expectant mommy she wanted to discuss with us. This was at about 11:10am. I told him I could do a conference call at noon, when I went to lunch. (Remember, Eric is in TEXAS!) So for 50 minutes, my heart raced and I tried not to get excited, but kinda thought "wouldnt it be cool if..." :) At noon, I raced out of my room and called D's cell phone. She answered with a cute "Hi, Kathleen!" and immediately said she would conference Eric in. So I waited while she dialed him in Texas and we waited for him to connect.
Once we were all on the phone, D said she had a situation she wanted to talk to us about. She said she had a couple who are married, young, have a 2 yr old son and a 1 yr old daughter, but they are separated and divorcing. She described the expectant mommy (strawberry hair, hazel eyes, etc) and the exceptant dad (brown hair, brown eyes, etc.) She said the expectant dad already signed termination of parental rights (TPR), and that the expectant mommy is "100% on board with this adoption plan". D went on to give details about the expectant mommy's health (no drugs, no alcohol, 2 tylenol cold pills before she knew she was pregnant, etc) and the expectant dad's info. I kept waiting for D to say something "bad" or "scary" or "troubling"...but she never did. She went on and on.
So I said "well, what do THEY want in an adoptive family?"
D went on to tell us that the couple had looked at 5 profiles and didnt like any of them. She said they want a couple who cant have their own children due to infertility. They want a financially stable couple who had a pet and would provide a college education for their daughter. D said they wanted a couple who live in Florida, and who would be sharing a positive story for their daughter re: her adoption. She also said they wanted an adoptive daddy who "looked Hispanic". :) (Eric is not Hispanic, but people talk to him in Spanish allllll the time because he looks like he would speak Spanish...he's Creek Indian and English. :)
So,..D says "Sooo, do you think you'd want me to show this couple your profile???"
and we dont hesitate at her silly question, and we say "Of COURSE! That baby girl sounds like she could be ours...the hair, the complexion, their wants...show us!!!!"
So D says "Wellll, do yu guys want to be parents??"
We say "uhhh, yesssssss"
And D says (this is the best part!) "Well good because they already picked you! You're matched!!"

We all screamed and cried and I couldnt believe my ears :) I was in my car screaming! D said "I told her you would react exactly like you are...screaming and crying! I cant wait to tell her I was right!" :)

So we wait until April 23rd or 24th for the expectant mommy to have a Csection. The expectant parents want to meet us first, and we'd like to meet them. I want to know everyting they are willing to share!! :) So, get reaady for some tense posts before THAT dinner date, folks!! :)

So thats it...Whitney Kate Bass will be here (God willing) April 23rd or 24th, 2009!!!

(Disclaimer: Yes, we know she could still change her mind. We can not IMAGINE what this couple and their two children are going through right now. We are truly blessed that they have chosen us, of all the ocuple they were given to choose from....us. But we DO know that it could all turnaround in the blink of an eye once she lays eyes on her beautiful daughter. We KNOW this. But for now, until we have reason NOT to be excited, we are celebrating. And D even said "BE excited...its safe to be excited." She truly feels, after 20+ years in this "business", that this is a good situation.....so I have to trust in the Lord and know that He will work it al out the way it is planned.)

CELEBRATE!!!!!!!!

34 comments:

Mrs. C. said...

LOL...I was gonna say! I saw the ticker and wondered, "Where's the blog about THAT???" Congrats!!! =D

Holly Burkhardt said...

YAY!!!! Kathleen words cannot express how happy I am for you. I just knew that you would get a little girl. You deserve to celebrate and celebrate hard. Now get out there and shop for some baby girl clothes that you have waited to buy. I wish i could reach through this screen and hug you. Im looking forward to going through your "pregnancy" with you. Happy BFP :) love ya

SarahBeth said...

OMG!!!!!!!! I am so excited for you guys! I know you are so happy and I am too! I just can't get over it! You two are gonna be such amazing parents! I love her name! CONGRATS! YAY!!!!!!

The Saunders Family said...

I told you April! I'm so happy for you and will keep praying that all goes smoothly for you. Can't describe the chills, tears, emotions I felt for you when I heard. Sooooo happy! Btw, my Cameron's b-day is April 27 and Christen is April 3:)

Amy said...

YAYAYA congrats!!! I am so happy for you both! This is wonderful news, I am praying for a beautiful little girl to soon be in your arms! Congrats on the BFP!!!! can't wait to hear more when the time comes!

Amy mom to Tyler

Sha said...

Oh Kat and Eric....I can not express how happy I am for you! I even have Belah running around and yelling YEA KAT IS GETTING A BABY! (That is what I yelled when I read your post) You and Eric are going to be AMAZING parents!!!!!!!!!!! I can not wait to hear about EVERYTHING!

Natosha said...

OH my Gosh!!! Prayers, more prayers and more prayers. I am soooo excited for you. My heart literally leaped out of my chest for you. I think I cried more than when I found out I was pregnant with Jude.

Seriously I have been praying for you so much lately. You guys have just been on my heart. Hugs.

Natosha

Our Royal Family said...

What an amazing gift for both you and Eric. There are no words to explain how excited we are for you. Please keep posting so us here in KS can keep up with all of the detais! You and Eric are going to be the most amazing parents! I am so proud of you for following your faith and sticking with the plan! CONGRATS!

Tricia said...

I am so happy for you sweetie :) Do you have a name picked out or did i miss that in all my excitement of reading.. How amazing for you, I will keep you and the birth parents in my prayers.. now go shop :)

Mikaela said...

Hooray!!! Congratulations Kathleen and Eric. I'm SO excited for you! Love how D explained it to you...."Do you want me to show your profile?" DUH!!!! Can't wait to hear all about the events leading up to your daughters birth. Big hugs and keep smiling:)!

Colee said...

Awww I am very happy for you guys.... I look forward to reading all about the arrival, pictures, etc....

Jenilee said...

omg Kat seriously! Tears of joy right now! I am so beyond happy for you! I can't wait to see pics of Whitney!

bethaidan said...

I am so excited for you!!!! I am sitting here crying tears of joy!!!

Maria H. said...

KAT and ERIC: WOW! What awesome news to see for you both! I'm so excited, and can't wait to see her! Prayers for you for patience as you wait for her arrival, and prayers also for the birth family, as they go through their struggles. I love her name, too! I'm SO happy for you both! Amazing!! Big hugs!!!!! Maria

Mandie said...

there are no words!!! YAY!!!!!!

H2 said...

Kathleen I'm so happy for you!!! You need to change you timeline on the "Road to Baby Bass"!! Is Whitney a name you've had chosen or is it a family name or is it still in the works?

~Morgan~ said...

Oh Kat I am so so so so happy for you an d Eric. I started crying when I read it. Her name is BEAUTIFUL!!!!! I look forward to being able to follow you in this wonderful journey in yours and Eric's life. CONGRATS to you both!!!!!!!!!

Morgan

Barb said...

Congrats Kat!!! I know this has been a long time coming. You and Eric will be wonderful parents and Bailey will be a wonderful "big" brother. Now the fun times start! Looking forward to following your "pregnancy"!

LL said...

I was clapping my hands as I read your post! I am so excited for you and your husband! You all are in my prayers...you and birth family.Yes, they may always change their minds, I am always reminded of it every single day, but try and rejoice in the fact that you may just be a mommy in a few short months!! God bless and many prayers!

Erinn said...

I'm so happy for you both!! What a fantastic time in your lives!! What a happy, happy day!!! Congratulations Mommy!!

mommy2rene said...

OMG KAT!!!! I am crying tears of joy for you guys!!!!!! We will both have little girls this year! :) I am SO HAPPY for you guys and can't wait to see pictures of your beautiful little girl!
Norma

sarah7181 said...

Oh Kat! This is the most wonderful news!!!! You are sooo going to love having a daughter. :) I think it's safe to be excited too!!! Baby is due on my DH's bday! I'm in tears!!! Congrats sweetie, you deserve it!!! Baily is going to love this! hehe He's getting a baby sister!

Mari said...

I am sooo happy for you guys! I knew this moment would come for you, just knew it. Congratulations!!

You are going to have pink everywhere

Lori and Paul said...

Congrats!!! I am so happy for you :-) Celebrate girl!!!

Lori

Shannon said...

I have already said it once..but congrats to you and Eric. That is gonna be one lucky little girl. She will have more love from her mommy and daddy than she will know what to do with :) Enjoy every minute of it..and blog like a fool...we all wanna experience this with you!!!

Anonymous said...

CONGRATULATIONS!! That is the best news. I am so happy for you and your Husband. I hope the time flies for you.

MommaMichele said...

SQUEEEE! That's awesome! Congrats.

Jennifer Flynn Reeves said...

I am SO happy for you and Eric!!! This is amazing news! I will continue to pray for all of you! By the way, I think an April 24th delivery would be fabulous...then we could be birthday twins!! :) xoxo

Kaley said...

Oh my goodness, I got goosebumps that wouldn't go away. Congragulations. You both deserve this baby girl so much, she will truely complete your life, and I know that you will be great parents. As always, keeping you, Eric, and the family in my prayers.

Erin said...

Congrats! You guys will be awesome parents! I can't wait to see her!

Thanksgivingmom said...

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

(I actually hadn't read this when we emailed yesterday!)

This post is perfect! So full of excitement I've got chills :)

I think it's GREAT that you're excited about this baby girl!! Please DO enjoy the match and the time til April as much as you can! I know this must be a tense time, but think of it this way: If the Mom DOES decide to parent, you'll of course be heartbroken - but you'll be heartbroken even if you DON'T let yourself get excited.

BUT, if she DOES place, and this baby is indeed your Whitney Kate, then wouldn't you rather have spent these three months excited and awaiting her arrival?

Allow yourself ALL the emotions I'm sure you're having, talk it out, write it out, we're all here for you, and, of course CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!

Tracey... said...

CONGRATULATIONS! OMG! MY WHOLE BODY IS TINGLING FOR YOU! GOD IS SO GOOD!!!

Katie said...

i cant believe i just now saw this...CONGRATS!!!! OMG i am so excited for you guys! I am praying everything goes smoothly and you are holding your beautiful daughter in your arms in just a few short months! ahhhh i am so giddy with anticipation for you!

Stef said...

OMGosh, I just cried. I'm so happy for you!!!! I KNEW i was missing something spectacular when i couldn't log onto your blog! :) well, sweetie, congrats and I cant wait for pictures!

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